Visiting hours were over
at the hospital in Belfast, Maine where
Tony was a patient. His youngest son, Bob
and his wife had visited him. Tony told
Bob that his boy, Buster, had visited
earlier with cousin Herbert. Tony recalled
that he’d been having chest pains when his
friend, Dorothy, happened by on her
motorcycle. She had driven him to the
hospital in his car.
Tony was eighty-four
years old. That evening he had told Bob
that he would live to be over a hundred
years because of his family’s longevity.
He had been born in 1894, two miles
outside of Moscow, Russia, in what was
called the outskirts of the city, son of
Franz and Julanda Mapeau`. He was named
Anton, after his paternal grandfather. He
had four older brothers, Franz, Josef,
Venzil and Adolf, and an older sister,
Anna. Each of the boys were named after
their father, carrying his name, Franz, as
a middle name. When he was ten years old
his younger sister, Julie, was born. His
family had come to Moscow from Austria,
originally from the Czech Republic.
Anton had been a happy
tow-headed child. His mother called him,
her youngest son, Toniku. He recalled
carefree days as a child, playing on the
floor, singing merrily to his mother as
she taught him his lessons. He would sing
and dance for hours. His mother entered
him in school when he was three years old.
By the time he was four years of age, he
could read and write. The school pushed
him from grade to grade, as he was an
‘advanced’ student. His mother did not
want him to go through high school any
faster, though he graduated when he was
fourteen years of age. If he had been
sixteen, he could have taught grammar
school. He learned French and German in
school, Czech and Hebrew at home from his
mother and grandparents, and Russian, the
language of his country. At school they
wore a type of uniform, sitting two to a
desk, which was made of a sturdy wood.
There was always
something going on in the area as he grew
up. There was a children’s festival,
costing half a ruble to attend, winter
festivals, sliding, skating, and other
winter sports. At the summer festivals,
there would be track racing with the other
boys. In the evening, the festivities
would conclude with a festival of
lanterns.
Transportation was by
horse-drawn trolleys, costing a few kopecs
to ride, but usually Anton and his friends
walked wherever they went. Sometimes
Mother would give him a few kopecs to buy
candy at the store, or to purchase books
about sea captains and going to sea.
The winters in Russia
were very harsh and cold, with much snow.
He was fortunate that his parents were
fairly well-to-do, and that he had warm
clothing, boots, and a Russian Babuska, a
hat made of fur.
Anton had many friends
his own age in the neighborhood. They
hunted, fished, explored the mysteries of
the old city of Moscow, and played around
the majestic medieval Kremlin Park. Anton
recalled that on more than one occasion,
Tsar Nicholas Romanov II came through
their area in an open carriage driven by a
coachman with a tall black hat. Both Tsar
Nicholas II and the coachman sat
straight-backed and stiff as they rode by.
No one made a sound as they stood in awe
watching the black carriage pass by.
One time Anton and his
friends crept through a fence into a park
near where the Romanov girls were playing.
When the girls saw the boys, they
excitedly ran shrieking and squealing.
Guards caught the boys, warning them not
to come that close again.
Both of Anton’s
grandparents lived with them. He
remembered the day that his paternal
grand-father, Anton, came in from hunting
rabbits. The rabbits in Russia were very
large. Grandfather remarked, “I am tired!”
to which Father replied, “What you think,
you’re a young man!” He died at the
kitchen table, eating supper at the age of
one hundred and ten. One of his
grandfathers owned a bologna factory, the
other owned a cigar factory, which were to
be Anton’s, as the youngest son, when he
came of age. Though Anton’s family had
lived in Russia for several generations,
they were required to carry passports, his
mother being a Socialist Jew from the
Czech Republic.
Father had been a
nurseryman, having a hothouse where he
raised many kinds of large fruit, pears,
apples, beautiful roses and more. He would
never reveal his secrets for raising such
large vegetation. Father grew an abundance
of garden produce even though the summers
were short and generally mild,
Anton’s brothers were
engineers. They built windmills and
dynamos, creating electricity. They were
the only ones for miles around to have
lights.
Father had been educated
in Germany. He spoke several languages,
including French, German, and Czech. The
authorities would come for Father to go to
factories to translate for them. Father
told Anton that there were three classes
of people in the changing Russia, peasants
who were uneducated, the middle class, who
were educated, and the rich, who he called
millionaires. Father worked for the rich
upper class people. Mother was well-liked.
She helped her less-fortunate neighbors,
bringing them vegetables, fruits,
firewood., food and baked goods from her
kitchen.
One of
Anton’s uncles had gone to the United
States during the Gold Rush. Anton’s
father had given him the money to go to
America. The uncle had sent a picture from
California, dressed in a fine suit, with a
big gold watch, gold chain and watch fob.
He had never repaid Father. Father made
Anton promise that if he ever got to
America, to never look up his uncle.
Another uncle, also named
Anton, was an engineer, building bridges.
He never drank on the job, admonishing
Anton to do the same. When his job was
finished, he would come home to stay with
Anton’s family, bringing a Mexican dog. He
would keep his money in his pocket, and
the dog would protect him and the money.
He would leave a Bismarck for Mother on
the table, with the dog to protect her
also.
Russia was in a turmoil. Many of the
people were opposed to the Tsar’s
monarchy. There was talk of anarchy. In
1897, when Anton was three years old, the
country had been involved in the Boer war.
When Anton was eleven years old, in 1904
and 1905, the country was involved in the
Russo-Japanese War, being defeated.
In 1904,
the officials came for Anton’s oldest
brother, Franz, to serve in the Army.
Father told them, “Get off my property.”
He then took Franz to Germany and put him
on a boat to go to America. On arriving in
the United States, Franz worked as an
engineer on the Brooklyn Bridge in 1904
for 38 cents an hour. From there he went
to Pennsylvania to work in the coal mines
where he lived with a Russian-Polish
family. Franz never married. Anton’s
brothers, Venzil and Adolf, had served in
the Russian Army. When one came home from
the Army, the other went away to serve his
time.. His brother, Joseph, had died as a
young man.
Anton’s sister, Anna, had
married a Postmaster in Moscow. His
youngest sister, Julie, later married a
telegraph operator, residing in the Ural
Mountains in Russia.
Many of his friends
worked on farms, though Anton didn’t have
to work. He read his books, longing to
sail on the high seas. The authorities had
come for several of his friends to serve
in the Russian Army. Now that Anton was
out of school, Father feared that the
authorities would come for him also. He
was adamant that his youngest son would
not serve in the Russian Army. Father had
a friend who was a sea captain on the
Black Sea. He wrote him, telling him that
he was sending Anton to Germany to meet
with him, making plans for his youngest
son to leave Russia.
At age fourteen, Father
paid his fare, put him on a train, taking
him to Germany. Anton was in Bremerhaven,
Germany two weeks before World War on 75
Fraulinger Straus [or Street]. His
brother, Venzil was in Germany at that
time. He told Anton to go back to
Bremerhaven, to meet a boat that came
fourteen miles on the river, and to get
out of Russia and not look back.
He went to Odessa on the
Black Sea, where he was a ‘mess boy’, or
Captain’s boy. He went with a crew in 1910
on a three-masted schooner, then to a
full-masted ship, where he was a student
to become an officer for thirteen months,
working on the ship for $10 a month. When
he was nineteen years old, in 1913, he was
a qualified as a quartermaster. The pilot
would stand by and tell him where to go.
In the winter, he was a fireman, and a
deck hand in the summer.
Anton went
home once when he was nineteen years old
in 1913. He had a photo taken with his
sister, Anna, and a friend. He never went
home, nor saw his family, again.
Anton
hired out on a Russian-American passenger
liner, named Dewensk [?]. The war was on
when he left Germany. He was at sea for
several years, stopping at major ports
around the world, stopping in Denmark for
coal and groceries. When they arrived in
Halifax, Canada, the authorities put a
quarantine on the liner and its 3500
passengers from Russia.
Anton stayed with an
American convoy, coming into Brooklyn, New
York in 1915, where he and his friend,
Emil, got off the ship. An old German on
the ship told them to remember one thing,
“Don’t bite the hand that is feeding you,
and you’ll get by.” If they were not
caught within twenty-four hours, they were
free. They did not come in as immigrants.
Anton made his way to Old
Forge, Pennsylvania, where his brother
Frank worked in the coal mines. He was
there in July 1915. Frank got him a job in
the mines. They boarded with the Basteks,
a Russian-Polish family in Old Forge. The
boarders were not allowed to fraternize
with the several daughters of the family.
Mrs. Bastek was a
hard-working woman. She would heat the
water for the household, stoke the coal
fire, cook the meals, prepare lunches for
the boarders to take to work, clean up
after them, do the laundry, as well as
tending to a garden, and animals. When the
men came in from work, she would have a
hot bath ready, scrub their backs, black
from coal dust, and prepare the evening
meal.
Anton recalled one
evening when he came in from work that the
bath was ready, but supper was not. He
took a bath and changed into clean
clothes. Mrs. Bastek asked him if he would
go for the doctor, who came within twenty
minutes. She had asked for hot water and
towels. She had a baby that evening. The
doctor said that she had not needed him.
The next morning, she had breakfast on the
table. Included with the meal was a drink
from the old country, imported strong
‘sweet’ tea, which he drank from a saucer,
through a sugar cube held between his
teeth. For all of his life, he liked a
hearty evening meal, always with meat of
some kind. A young girl named Helen wanted
to get married, but Anton was not ready to
settle down. So, he left Helen and
Pennsylvania.
All Anton knew in English
was “go” and “stop”. He had learned
several languages while at sea in his
youth. The first English that he learned
in 1914, was “son of a bitch”. He learned
to read and write English from reading
newspapers near the Brooklyn Bridge, on a
park bench about 1917. If he was reading
the newspaper, a passing policeman would
let him stay. But, if he was sleeping, the
officer would hit his feet with a billy
club. He carved his initials, AFM, on a
park bench. Because of the War, Anton
discarded the papers that he’d brought
from the old country, including the
passport that he’d carried all of his
life.
In 1917, Anton registered
for the World War I draft in Brooklyn, New
York. He gave his address as 40 Atlantic
Avenue. At that time he was a captain of a
scow, signing his name as Antonio Maresh.
In April of 1918, he registered with the
U. S. Customs Service in the Port of New
York, signing his name as Anton Maresh, 49
Atlantic Ave, Brooklyn, N. Y., his
occupation was unemployed seaman. In May
1917, he joined the Tide Water Boatmens
Union, Local 847 of the International
Longshoremens Association, signing his
name as Antone Maresh. When the paymaster
at the Port asked his name, he gave it as
Antone. The paymaster called him Anthony,
the name he went by from that time forth,
using the nickname, Tony.
From New
York, Tony made his way to northern Maine,
where he worked in the lumber camps.
Somewhere along the way, he met Carney
Shure, also a Russian Jew, who had
purchased the Ira Cram mill in Montville,
Maine. He told Tony that if he came to
Montville, that he would give him a job.
Tony arrived in Montville
around the last of 1919. Working in the
Shure mill, he met the Hannan boys who
worked in the mill also. They invited him
home with them where he met their sister,
young Gladys Hannan. They courted for a
time, marrying in October 1920. Gladys was
the next eldest daughter of Herbert and
Millie (Boynton) Hannan. Her father has
passed away many years before.
The young couple first
lived in ‘The Camp’, a small house owned
by Carney Shure in the Kingdom, Montville,
Maine. Gladys’ sister, Mildred, had three
young children. Her husband had left her
to raise the children alone. The young
people decided that they would go to
Massachusetts where there was more work
with better pay.
Tony and Gladys lived in
Allston, Wellesley, and on Summer Street
in Natick, before purchasing a home at 34
Orchard Road in East Natick in 1934. Tony
worked at various jobs, before obtaining a
job with the Boston and Albany Railroad,
which was later merged with New York
Central. Because Tony spoke seven
languages, he was a natural to become a
section foreman on the railroad, which
employed men from many nationalities,
working for the railroad for thirty-seven
years. He joined the Brotherhood of
Maintenance of Way Employees in 1936,
retiring in 1960.
Tony and
Gladys were the parents of five children,
born in Massachusetts, Antina, Frances
Muriel, twins, Anton Frank and Alton
Francis, and the youngest, Robert. Anton
Frank died at age three months of
pneumonia, and buried in Wellesley, Mass.
Alton, who was called Buster, also had
pneumonia, which left him severely deaf.
In 1942, Tony and Gladys
returned to Old Forge, Penn.. Mrs. Bastek
confirmed to Gladys the story of her
having a baby, and then getting up the
next morning to feed the boarders. They
visited the mine fields where Tony and
Frank had worked. They also visited New
York, and found his initials on the park
bench, that he’d carved so many years
before.
In 1950, Tony and Gladys
purchased a farm to retire to in
Searsmont, Maine. Three of their children
moved to the farm the next year. When Tony
retired from the railroad in 1960, he and
Gladys moved to Maine to spend their
remaining years. Tony enjoyed hunting, and
was an avid fisherman. He was a member of
Quantabacook Masonic Lodge.
Gladys
passed away in 1974 of cancer. Tony and
Buster remained on the farm until that
fateful day that he went to the hospital
in July of 1980. Later, on the night that
he told Bob that he would live to be over
a hundred, he went to join his family on
the golden shore. He was nearly
eighty-five years of age. He is buried in
Hillside Cemetery in Belmont, Maine with
Gladys, his wife of over fifty years.
Tony’s father, Franz, had
died in Russia in 1925. His mother
returned to Praha, Austria, where she died
in 1956. Tony‘s brothers, Venzil and
Adolf, and their families resided in the
Czech Republic.
[Much of this story was
obtained from interviews with Anthony F.
Maresh in 1979 and 1980. It is as told,
and may not always be substantiated, but
it gives a picture of a Russian immigrant
to America, with glimpses of his life in
the old country. Tony had at least three
letters from his mother, who was in Praha,
in which she begged him to keep in touch.
He left Russia in 1908, returned once as a
young man in 1913, and one of his desires
in old age, was to once again return,
though none of his family lived in Russia
then.]