Loving Wife and
Mother
Gladys awoke
from a night of fitful sleep. The house was
quiet. Could it be that she was home alone?
She was hungry and breakfast had not been
brought to her. She rose cautiously, putting
on her robe and slippers. She went to the
kitchen, though it had been awhile since
she’d felt well enough to prepare a meal.
She craved a bowl of hot oatmeal, which was
not in its usual place.
“My kitchen
has been rearranged,” she thought to
herself, a little agitated.
After eating
what to her was a large breakfast of
oatmeal, toast and tea she went into the
bathroom, hung her robe on the back of the
door and washed her hands. She suddenly felt
exhausted and went back to bed.
It was the
day before Easter. She eased into the bed.
Her eyes closed into a deep sleep, though
she heard her youngest son, Robert, come in.
He sat quietly beside her bed, asking how
she was. He’d always been her fair-haired
baby, Bobby.
She could
hear the voices calling her from “the other
side.” Her work here had been done. She felt
so weak that she just could not open her
eyes. Her son could not hear what Gladys was
hearing and seeing, so he left her to sleep.
Gladys had
cancer. For the months before Christmas,
she’d been so tired and weak, losing a great
deal of weight. She’d never been one to
complain. She said she would see a doctor
after the holidays were over.
Christmas was
her favorite holiday. All year long,
whenever she was shopping, she picked up
items to wrap for gifts, mostly useful, but
many were just little gifts to express her
love.
The week following Christmas, she did as she
had said, going to the doctor for a
check-up. The prognosis was not good. She
had cancer and it had progressed to the
point of no return. The only thing that
could be done was chemotherapy treatments to
try to stop the cancer. The chemo was not
helping, making her deathly ill. She told
her family that she would not live to see
Easter, another of her favorite holy days.
Her life seemed like a vision, opening up
for her and her God to review.
Gladys was
the second child of the large family born in
1900 to Herbert and Millie (Boynton) Hannan.
She had been born in her grandfather
Boynton’s house, in Montville, where she
lived for the most of her childhood.
Gladys
remembered the cold day, when she was four
years old, that Papa, Aunt Cad, and Uncle
Dell brought Grandpapa Hannan to their home
to live. He had given Mamma his royal blue
Civil War coat with the brass buttons to
make warm coats for Mildred and her. Both of
the old grandfathers told the children
stories of bygone days. It was a happy
carefree time of their lives.
Grandpapa Hannan died in the old house in
the spring of 1904, just seventy years
previous.
Gladys
vividly remembered the day when she was ten
years old, that Papa came in from the cooper
shop telling Mamma that he had an awful
headache. Papa asked young Herbert to sit
with him. Later in the day, Dr. Ramsay came
with his black bag. He came out to tell the
family that Papa was dead.
From that
time, things seemed to happen quickly, and
none of it seemed good. Mamma struggled on,
working for neighbors and desperately trying
to keep her family together. Gladys and
Mildred tended the younger children, getting
meals and washing the clothes in a washtub
with a scrub board. Roy and Herbert, even
though they were only eight and nine years
old, did chores for some of the neighbors.
Baby Lester
became ill, and he too died, only three
months after Papa’s death. She still
remembered the little box they put the baby
in and took him away.
Then, on what
seemed to her to have been a dark and
foreboding day, men came and took eight year
old Roy, five year old Bertha and four year
old Daisy away. What had we done wrong?
Mamma, when are they coming back? They
didn’t come back. Mamma seemed to be walking
in a daze. So much was happening. A year
after Papa’s death, grandfather Boynton died
at home in 1912.
Mamma married
old man, Joe Chapman. He was a mean man,
mean to Mamma, and to the children,
especially mean to the boys. Baby brother,
George was born when Gladys was twelve years
old. Old Joe Chapman left, and no one in the
house missed him at all. George was such a
happy, chubby baby that all of the family
just loved him. Mamma clung to him, and he
clung to Mamma, Mildred and Gladys.
It was about
this time, as if Mamma didn’t have enough
problems, that Gladys became sick with a
very bad sore throat. She awoke one morning
and couldn’t see. Dr. Ramsay again came. He
said that she had rheumatic fever, leaving
her blind for some time.
Mildred, only
thirteen, tended to Gladys, the other
children and baby George while Mamma was
working. One late winter afternoon, while
Mamma was away doing housework for a
neighbor woman, with a candle burning in the
kitchen for light, Mildred saw a bright
light with a vision of Jesus.
Gladys, in
her blindness, called out to Mildred from
the bedroom. She had seen the light also.
Then they heard a tap-tap-tap at the door.
No one was ever out in the night on the back
roads of Montville where they lived. The
girls were very frightened, as Mildred
cautiously opened the door a crack. It was
Aunt Bertha from down the road, coming to
check on her favorite niece, Gladys. She,
also had seen the light and vision. Mildred
wooded the fire in the kitchen stove and
made tea for the three of them. From that
time forth, Gladys’ vision improved. For the
rest of their lives, they believed they had
seen an angel.
The children
attended the Kingdom one-room schoolhouse.
Gladys was a brilliant student. She loved to
read and do crossword puzzles. She learned
to knit and crochet, making mittens, hats,
gloves, and sweaters from her youth — first
for her siblings, and later for her own
family. Gladys had many cousins in the
neighborhood around Montville. Some were her
best friends and schoolmates, among whom
were cousins, Belva and Elmer Davis.
Montville and
Liberty were busy towns, having much
industry and mills on the waterways. Ira
Cram’s mill had been sold to Carney Shure
from Massachusetts in 1915. The Shure mill
employed a number of the local men,
including Herbert, Roy and David. The girls
were only qualified to work at housekeeping
jobs.
One day, the
boys brought a handsome young Russian man
home with them. Anthony Maresh, called Tony,
came from Northern Maine to work in the
mill. Tony and Gladys were married in
October 1920. They first lived in the little
house in the Kingdom called "The Camp,"
owned by Carney Shure.
At
that time, in the early 1920s, there was a
migration of young people moving to
Massachusetts to make their fortune. Gladys
and Tony moved to Massachusetts. Mildred,
who had been left with three small children,
moved with them.
Mamma married
Charles Hubbard in Belfast. They, with the
younger boys, followed the family to
Massachusetts. Herbert chose to return to
Maine, living in the family home in Liberty.
Mamma got scarlet fever and died in Boston
City Hospital in 1930. She was only fifty
years old.
Tony worked
at several jobs before becoming section
foreman on the Boston and Albany Railroad,
which was later bought out by New York
Central. He spoke seven languages, making
him a natural to oversee workers from many
nationalities. The couple lived in Allston
and Wellesley before buying a lot with two
houses on Orchard Road in East Natick.
Their
children, Antina, Frances, Alton and Anton
were born in Massachusetts. In 1930, the
three month old twins, Alton and Anton,
became ill of pneumonia with high fever.
Anton died of the fever. Alton survived but
was left totally deaf.
Gladys was
grief-stricken over the baby’s death, coming
so soon after Mamma’s death. Baby Robert was
born after the move to East Natick. He was
her pride and joy, a towheaded child, asking
endless questions, getting a ‘poon and a jar
to play in the sand and picking dandelion
"Flowters."
Alton was
always called Buster. When he was six,
Gladys was urged to send him to a private
school. She had always been protective of
her young son. It was a very hard decision
for her to make to send him to a Catholic
School for the Deaf in Randolph, Mass. For
the ten years Buster attended school, it
broke Gladys’ heart to leave him there.
The Maresh
Family in East Natick, MA
Gladys and
Tony bought a farm in Searsmont to retire
to, near the place of her birth. Their
daughter and children moved to the farm.
Gladys’ heart again broke to give her sons,
Buster and Bob, permission to move to Maine
also.
When Tony
retired from the railroad, he and Gladys
returned to the farm in Maine. Gladys
enjoyed their retirement. Tony and Buster
hunted and fished. She was content in her
home, knitting, crocheting, sewing and
cooking for all her family.
Her siblings and their
families came to Maine for vacations. Gladys
met some of her cousins who she had never
known, and in 1960 they organized the Hannan
Family Reunion, which was held annually for
more than 10 years. Gladys enjoyed hosting
the reunion and having relatives around. She
also enjoyed having her children,
grandchildren and great-grandchildren around
her.
Gladys’ mind
came back to the present. Bob had gone home.
The angels were waiting to carry her to her
new home. So many of those who had gone on
before were calling to her from Heaven
saying it was time for her to come Home.
Just as she
had said, on the day before Easter, April
1974, Gladys Nancy Maresh changed her
address once more. She now dwells in Heaven.
She didn’t need the robe hanging on the
bathroom door. She had been given a shining
new robe.
“Welcome
home, well done, thou good and faithful
servant!”
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